Quite Possibly The Coolest Wedding Ever

I first noticed photos from this jaw-dropping wedding on my pal, Ann Larie's Flickr stream a few weeks ago. And then last night I saw a few more on Flora Grubb's blog. I was hooked. I spent an hour (not working) pouring over the amazing images, sweet anecdotes from the wedding, and gushing over their vows! A lot of the floral décor is tillandsia, one of my faves! If you're tired of prim and proper weddings, this one is for you! There are a TON TON TON more photos on the Feather Love Photography website (if you have an hour to spare!)

The first ceremony was held at Carmel River State Beach, followed by a lunch reception at Monterey Peninsula Country Club Beach House in Pebble Beach. Day 2 was San Francisco… starting at the Palace Hotel and big ceremony bash was held at Flora Grubb Gardens, complete with a pedal powered ferris wheels, karaoke, photobooth, a tiny tea party, and a grilled cheese sandwich station!

Here are their vows along with a sweet intro paragraph (published on Feather Love Photography), along with a few favorite photos. 

K & J were sweet enough to allow me share them here. Rather than repeating a set of traditional vows, the couple alternated speaking promises to each other. Jonathan: “We know that great relationships thrive because of the countless small things each person does for the other, the way they interact day to day, and we wanted our vows to reflect that. I’ve done enough project management to know that commitments should be specific and measurable, and these are the most important commitments I’ve ever made.” Kestrin: “Our wedding vows have already become real guidelines for our relationship. I can actually reference them when he needs to take out the trash or I need to focus on solving a problem instead of getting quiet or resentful.”

“Jonathan: I vow to love you
Kestrin: I vow to love you
J: to respect you
K: to always make fun
J: to be your best friend ever
K: to constantly generate a force field of awesome to guide and protect us
J: to do what I love
K: to actively maintain our relationship
J: to be lucky
K: to live a charmed life
J: to live as long as possible
K: to ask nicely for what i need
J: to communicate my feelings effectively
K: to live a life of hilarious bliss together
J: to provide for you
K: to solve problems
J: to make time for you every single day
J: to remain curious
K: to stand by my man
J: to put our relationship first
K: to build a community around us
J: to build a family life together
K: to give you babies
J: to change the diapers on those babies
K: to be great parent
J: to sing with you in the morning
K: to give you shoulder rubs, intermittently, for as long as we both shall live
J: to remember how lucky I am
K: to rock out with our great grandchildren
J: to take you on one hundred honeymoons
K: to maintain a menagerie
J: to clean up
K: to sing songs to you
J: to speak for you when you sing your voice out
K: to throw radical parties
J: to be faithful to you
K: to take joy in doing nice things for you
J: to be compassionate
K: to be devoted
J: to be committed
K: to be happy
J: to Listen to you
K: to support you
J: to stay with you forever
K: Do you vow to be my husband?
J: I do. Do you vow to be my wife?
K: I do.”

Help a Mother Out!

The big party for Help a Mother Out was on Sunday at the Peekadoodle Kidsclub and it was a great success! Over 17,000 diapers were collected and everyone had a blast! I even won a raffle prize... an awesome collection of MY OWN vintage stamped envelopes and notecards! Yep, I won my own raffle prize! Once they realized it, I was given a 90 minute massage at Relaxmith... so much better than stamps, right?!

Amber, from wiz bang photography set up a great photobooth. We got our photo taken! Check out her HAMO post with some great shots of other kids and families in the photobooth HERE. Big thanks to Julie Michelle from iliveheresf for getting me involved!

 

Help a Mother Out

From the Help a Mother Out website:

Did you know that diapers are not covered by public assistance programs like WIC or food stamps? And did you know that diaper companies do not make big donations to shelters or outreach programs? Until we started Help A Mother Out, we didn’t know it either. It was a revelation to us that something so basic as a diaper could have such a big impact.

If you’re not a parent, you might be surprised to realize that a jumbo pack of Pampers costs from $10 to $15—that’s 20 to 30 cents per diaper, depending on the size of the diaper. And if you can’t shop at discount stores like Target or Costco and instead have to rely on corner stores or drugstores, you’ll often end up paying even more per diaper. For reference, a newborn baby goes through 60 or more diapers a week. When money’s tight, that’s a lot of dough to drop. For families in need, having to choose between buying food or buying diapers is a terrible option—yet an all-too-common one.

Let’s break it down.

1. While safety-net programs such as SNAP (food stamps) and WIC (Women, Infants and Children) cover the cost of infant formula, they do NOT cover diapers.
2. Diaper companies do NOT give diapers away (unless you are Jon and Kate Plus 8 or the California octuplets).
3. Infant formula companies donate formula and the government subsidizes it under SNAP and WIC.
4. Diapers cost exponentially more at an inner-city convenience store than they do at a big box store or online.
5. Most laundromats do NOT allow you to wash cloth diapers. If you are poor, you probably don’t own a washing machine.
6. Most licensed daycare centers (especially free or subsidized) do not accept cloth diapers. Parents must provide disposable diapers.
7. If a family can’t afford diapers (e.g., they need that money for shelter, food, transportation), a baby will spend extended periods of time, sometimes days at a time in the same soiled diaper.
8. Washing and reusing disposable diapers is unhealthy and unsanitary.
9. Unhappy babies are crying babies. Crying babies are more likely to be abused by an already stressed-out caregiver.
10. If you cannot afford diapers, you cannot take your child to free/subsidized childcare. Therefore, you cannot make your commitments such as work, school, or job training.
11. Start over.

It’s a vicious cycle, but at HAMO are trying to help break it. By doing something so simple as donating a pack of diapers, you can help make a real difference in someone’s life.

Dearest readers, I hope at this point, you are wondering, "HOW CAN I HELP???" I'm really excited to let you know that there are so many ways you can help!! 

Mother's Day Playdate with a Cause

HaMO is celebrating Mother's Day with their second annual diaper drive (they've collected over 163,000 diapers since last May!!!). To kick start the month, they're hosting a Mother's Day Playdate with a Cause

When: Sunday, May 2nd from 3-6pm
Where: Peekadoodle Kidsclub 900 North Point Street, Suite F100, San Francisco 94109

Tickets are $35 for a family (2 adults + 3 kids) and can be purchased HERE. There will be food, drinks, fun for the kids, and raffle prizes! ALL proceeds will benefit their Bay Area program. Help a Mother out is a national organization started here in SF by Lisa Truong, a mother of two.

AMAZON WISH LISTS :: Listed HERE are the Northern California organizations who benefit from HaMO. If you'd like to help out by buying diapers for a particular group, there are Amazon Wish Lists set up for each; this is SO COOL!! For example, Here is the link for the Wish List for SF's Homeless Prenatal Program.

DONATE DIAPERS IN PERSON at these lovely Bay Area businesses:

Natural Resources ~ 1367 Valencia St SAN FRANCISCO, CA 94110

The Nurture Center ~ 3399 Mt. Diablo Blvd, LAFAYETTE, CA 94549

Sadiedey’s Cafe ~ 4210 Telegraph Ave., OAKLAND, CA 94602

Baby Buzz ~ 1314 Lincoln Ave, #1A SAN JOSE, CA 95125

Cubes & Crayons ~ 154 E. Dana Street MOUNTAIN VIEW 94309

HOST A DIAPER DRIVE :: HaMo would be delighted if you hosted a diaper drive with your service group, parenting group, school, work, or place of worship. Download their information sheet to share with your group. You won't even believe how inspiring this information sheet is. Click on it, seriously; it's AWESOME. 

That's all from me about Help a Mother Out. Hope to see you on May 2nd at the big party. You may even win an amazing gift basket from JetKat Design!!

A Dream Studio

I've always been super intrigued by this photo that has been in one of my "inspiration" folders for a few years. I can't remember where I first saw the image (probably Design*Sponge or Apartment Therapy). I don't have to wonder about what goes on inside that sweet backyard studio anymore! I just saw this article in The New York Times! It's the studio of ceramicist Lisa Neimeth and I was delighted to find that she's based in San Francisco... what a small world. Here are a few more photos of her studio and her ceramics!